What they say…

 

About the Mine Your Money Story 30 Minute Session…

I recently experienced a "breakthrough" session with Becki. After about a half hour of being asked thoughtful questions about my past relationship with money, she was able to assist me in identifying some contradictions I had been holding around valuing what I do for a living, and the sense of self-worth I derive from it. She was also able to help me identify some patterns that were standing in my way of healing my relationship with money. My finances were nothing I had ever brought up as a topic with my therapist before so I hadn't had an opportunity to I guess experience what actual emotions I have around money, other than frustration. ~ Ruth H Herbalist/Massage Therapist/Shaman

 

I’ve taken a lot of courses on how to deal with money because it has never been one of my strong suits. So often I have had the thought "what if I'm just bad at this forever?" My Mine your Money Story session was powerful, illuminating, and helped build confidence. I've always known that my family's money story had informed mine, but with Becki I was able to consciously realize the subconscious stories that have been floating around for so long. With Becki I was able to verbalize the deep fears surrounding my money story and see a way to a positive ending. ~ Heidi B. Clothing Designer and Seamstress

 

About 3 Secrets to Healing Your Relationship With Money…

When I first met Becki, I was coming from a place of being completely paralyzed, intimidated, and overwhelmed by my money story and just wasn't able to see any way out. Not only did Becki talk about money in a way that felt so easy and not at all intimidating, but she talked in a way that deeply resonated with me, helped me to not feel so alone, and brought me to the point where I could say to myself, "oh hey, maybe I can do this!" Now, I feel empowered as I take the steps to change my money story and with each step, more opportunities are opening for me. Thank you Becki! ~Megan C

 

I've always thought money to be very private. Becki really changed my beliefs about money. She showed me ways that I was blocking myself with false beliefs, and she offered sound advice to help me change. I am so happy that someone is doing this work... I'm even happier that it's Becki Hawley! She is extremely knowledgeable and professional. She is kind and supportive without being judgmental. ~Sherron B




 

About the 6 Month Peace With Money Program...

My biggest challenge was definitely seeing myself as having my own power. I saw money as a means to help others and not as a means to empower myself first. I'm learning to set goals for myself and think seriously (and joyfully) about what I really desire for myself rather than making a parental figure or person of significance the decider of my fate. I have opened my heart to what I really want rather than first setting it through a filter of "is this okay/ is this what's expected of me/ is this possible?” So far I have seen that I am powerful, that it's okay to have fear around what I am capable of but that fear is often a block I use to keep me from making decisions and actions on getting what I want. I'm making my business more visible and putting my income on the books and being seen as a professional. I’m talking openly to current clients about color services and giving out my cards to people I don't know rather than waiting for someone to recommend me or speak for me.

I’m learning what I really want in terms of a business. This will help my life by allowing me to be my authentic self while I am cultivating an expanding business and making a name for myself as a stylist. I am able to be an open, confident, clear communicator and also see myself as a business owner in a town where I've often felt like an outsider as an adult because I wasn't cool enough or bold enough. But I am bold. And I am enough. And no one can offer the specific gifts that I offer.

The offering of another woman holding space for me to talk about my shame is profoundly moving. It’s given me space to forgive myself and to open my heart to my true desires. I grew up poor and I thought my part was to be a fraction of what others needed from me; I thought that I would somehow be happy with that fraction…that outside praise… that smallness. But I am enough and was all along. Those people were seeing me in the background of a broken mirror. Although I was not a reflection of their losses, I saw myself as somehow less of a person because they could not see me… because they wanted something from me or for me that they could not be for themselves. I find myself laughing lately thinking of the times I convinced myself I couldn't do something or be something amazing because people I loved and admired couldn't see it. And I am done trying to write someone else's story of what I want. ~ Meg P/Hair Stylist

 

My biggest challenge with my relationship with my money was feeling like no matter what I did my money situation would never change I’m learning to think positive, take action, and remember that I am in control. I decide how money affects my life. I’ve been working through ideas and feeling energized about the future.  I am happier. Taking control and looking at each day with a positive outlook really has changed how I feel. It changes everything to how I treat my family, interact with clients and it will help me to be more successful. I was feeling stuck. In a rut of being negative, no new ideas and not feeling excited about anything. As I continue to define what I want, I am working towards it. I have ideas and feel excited. I feel possibilities and am so so happy that I am working with Becki. ~ Becky H/ Real Estate Agent


 

About the Define Your Desires 30 Day Intensive...

I decided to take this intensive because I really wanted to bring my art business to a new level and my fear that I couldn’t make enough money doing it was causing inertia and inaction.  One thing I learned  is that fear and desire go hand in hand and I can acknowledge my fear without giving it power over my decisions. I  learned to break larger tasks into smaller “to do” lists to stay out of overwhelm.  Since I started working with Becki I have made significant strides in my business.  I created my new business cards, my ETSY shop is up and running, my new website is under construction, and I’m prepping for my art opening for gallery night in May. I sold  several pieces of my art and made quite a bit of money from it. I learned that I give money the power to be something other than  an energy exchange and I am not scared of it any more. I’m so excited to make so much progress in such a short period of time. ~Lynn C/ Visual Artist